For more than two decades, Bill had stopped drinking, built a life in recovery, and used meetings, service, approval, belonging, and spiritual ideas to manage internal distress. Then Byron Katie asked a question that opened a new direction: “Do you believe everything you think?” In Part 2 of this series, Bill explores how questioning thoughts helped him see the difference between another person’s behavior and the suffering created by the thoughts he believed.

Recovery begins when we become aware that addiction is creating problems and begin addressing those problems. For Bill, getting sober interrupted his drinking, but it also disrupted the strategy alcohol had used to stabilize his internal state. In this first article of the series, he explores how sobriety exposed what alcohol had been managing, how recovery identity became another strategy for coping with internal distress, and why the next movement of recovery required a deeper question about the thoughts shaping his suffering.

Recovery begins when we become aware that addiction is creating problems and begin addressing them. But recovery often reveals more than the addictive behavior itself. It exposes the thoughts, beliefs, fears, and protective strategies that have shaped how we experience ourselves, others, and life. In this article, Bill explores how Byron Katie’s question, “Do you believe everything you think?” opened a new direction in his recovery beyond abstinence and helped him begin questioning the thoughts that had been shaping his suffering.